Apologizing for Canceling Plans | Learn Spanish in English

Spanish lesson set in a contemporary Madrid everyday setting: Before an evening plan, one friend apologizes for canceling late because of a family issue and offers to reschedule..

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Dialogue

A

Lo siento mucho, pero tengo que cancelar el plan de esta noche.

loh SYEHN-toh MOO-choh, PEH-roh TEHN-goh keh kahn-seh-LAR ehl PLAHN deh EH-stah NOH-cheh. I'm really sorry, but I need to cancel tonight's plan.
B

Qué decepción. ¿Pasó algo urgente?

keh deh-sehp-SYOHN. pah-SOH AHL-goh oor-HEN-teh? That's disappointing. Did something urgent happen?
A

Surgió un problema familiar y no puedo salir de casa.

soor-HYOH oon proh-BLEH-mah fah-mee-LYAR ee noh PWEH-doh sah-LEER deh KAH-sah. A family issue came up, and I can't leave home.
B

Lo entiendo, pero me habría gustado saberlo antes.

loh ehn-TYEHN-doh, PEH-roh meh ah-BREE-ah goos-TAH-doh sah-BEHR-loh AHN-tehs. I understand, but I wish I had known earlier.
A

Tienes razón. Debería habértelo dicho en cuanto lo supe.

TYEH-nehs rah-SOHN. deh-beh-REE-ah ah-BEHR-teh-loh DEE-choh ehn KWAHN-toh loh SOO-peh. You're right. I should have told you as soon as I knew.
B

Te lo agradezco. Ya había empezado a prepararme.

teh loh ah-grah-DEHS-koh. yah ah-BEE-ah ehm-peh-SAH-doh ah preh-pah-RAHR-meh. I appreciate that. I had already started getting ready.
A

Déjame compensártelo eligiendo otra fecha que te venga bien.

DEH-hah-meh kohm-pehn-SAHR-teh-loh eh-lee-HYEN-doh OH-trah FEH-chah keh teh BEHN-gah BYEHN. Let me make it up to you by choosing another date that works for you.
B

Podemos cambiar la fecha, pero confírmamelo cuando las cosas estén más tranquilas.

poh-DEH-mohs kahm-BYAR lah FEH-chah, PEH-roh kohn-FEER-mah-meh-loh KWAHN-doh lahs KOH-sahs ehs-TEHN mahs trahn-KEE-lahs. We can reschedule, but please confirm once things are calmer.
A

Te escribiré cuando sepa más.

teh ehs-kree-bee-REH KWAHN-doh SEH-pah mahs. I'll message you when I know more.
A

Sé que el cambio de última hora alteró tu noche.

SEH keh ehl KAHM-byoh deh OOL-tee-mah OH-rah ahl-teh-ROH too NOH-cheh. I know the late change disrupted your evening.
B

Espero que todo esté bien con tu familia.

ehs-PEH-roh keh TOH-doh ehs-TEH BYEHN kohn too fah-MEE-lyah. I hope everything is all right with your family.

Sentence explanations

  1. Lo siento mucho, pero tengo que cancelar el plan de esta noche.

    I'm really sorry, but I need to cancel tonight's plan.

    Lo siento mucho
    I'm very sorry
    tengo que
    I need to
    cancelar
    to cancel
    el plan
    the plan
    esta noche
    tonight
    More detail

    Lo siento mucho is the fixed apology meaning “I’m very sorry.” Siento is the first-person singular present form of sentir (“to feel”); here, with lo, it is the established expression lo siento for apologizing. Mucho intensifies the apology: “very much.” tengo que expresses necessity: “I have to” or, in this translation, “I need to.” Tengo is the first-person singular present form of tener (“to have”), and que links it to the following infinitive. The reusable pattern is tener que + infinitive: Tengo que estudiar means “I have to study.” Cancelar is an infinitive meaning “to cancel.” After tengo que, the verb remains in the infinitive, so the speaker’s person is marked by tengo, not by cancelar. El plan means “the plan.” Plan is a masculine singular noun, so it appears with the masculine singular definite article el. In this sentence, it refers to the plan mentioned in the fixed translation, not to a newly specified type of plan. Esta noche is the time expression “tonight.” Esta is the feminine singular form of the demonstrative used with the feminine noun noche; compare este with a masculine singular noun, as in este día (“this day”). Together, esta noche functions as a time phrase. The parts assemble as Lo siento mucho, pero (“I’m very sorry, but”) + tengo que cancelar (“I need to cancel”) + el plan (“the plan”) + de esta noche (“for tonight” / “tonight’s”). The whole utterance therefore means: “I’m really sorry, but I need to cancel tonight’s plan.”

  2. Qué decepción. ¿Pasó algo urgente?

    That's disappointing. Did something urgent happen?

    Qué decepción
    What a disappointment
    Pasó
    happened
    algo
    something
    urgente
    urgent
    More detail

    Qué decepción is an exclamation meaning “What a disappointment.” Here qué has an accent because it introduces an exclamation; compare the question ¿Qué pasó? (“What happened?”). Decepción is a feminine noun. Example: ¡Qué sorpresa! — “What a surprise!” Pasó is the third-person singular preterite form of pasar (“to happen” or “to pass”). In this question it means “happened,” referring to an event rather than identifying who caused it. The preterite presents the event as completed. Example: ¿Pasó algo? — “Did something happen?” Algo is an indefinite pronoun meaning “something.” It refers to an unspecified thing or event; it is not a definite article and does not identify the exact event. Example: Necesito algo. — “I need something.” Urgente is an adjective meaning “urgent.” It is singular here and agrees with algo; the form urgente is the same for singular masculine and feminine nouns. Its plural form is urgentes. Example: Es una situación urgente. — “It is an urgent situation.” Together, ¿Pasó algo urgente? asks whether an urgent event occurred: “Did something urgent happen?” The two parts therefore express disappointment first, followed by a question about a possible urgent event.

  3. Surgió un problema familiar y no puedo salir de casa.

    A family issue came up, and I can't leave home.

    Surgió
    came up / arose
    problema
    problem
    familiar
    family-related
    no puedo
    I can't
    salir
    to leave / go out
    casa
    home / house
    More detail

    Surgió is the third-person singular preterite of surgir (“to arise” or “to come up”). Here it describes a problem that came up as a completed event. The infinitive is surgir. Example: Surgió una duda. — “A question came up.” problema is a masculine singular noun meaning “problem.” Its plural is problemas. In un problema, the article and any agreeing adjective are masculine singular. familiar means “family-related” here and modifies problema: problema familiar means “family problem” or “family-related issue.” This adjective has the same form with masculine and feminine singular nouns: un problema familiar, una situación familiar. Its plural is familiares. no puedo combines no (“not”) with puedo, the first-person singular present form of poder (“to be able to” or “can”). Together they express the speaker’s inability: “I can’t.” A reusable pattern is no puedo + infinitive: No puedo venir. — “I can’t come.” salir is an infinitive meaning “to leave” or “to go out.” After puedo, Spanish uses the infinitive: puedo salir means “I can leave/go out,” while no puedo salir means “I can’t leave/go out.” casa means “house” or “home.” In salir de casa, de marks the place from which someone leaves, producing the reusable expression “to leave home” or “to go out from home.” Example: Salgo de casa a las ocho. — “I leave home at eight.” Together, Surgió un problema familiar says that a family-related problem came up. y no puedo salir de casa adds that the speaker cannot leave home. The whole utterance means: “A family issue came up, and I can’t leave home.”

  4. Lo entiendo, pero me habría gustado saberlo antes.

    I understand, but I wish I had known earlier.

    Lo entiendo
    I understand it
    me habría gustado
    I would have liked
    saberlo
    to know it
    antes
    earlier
    More detail

    Lo entiendo: entiendo is the first-person singular present form of entender (“to understand”): yo entiendo. The e changes to ie in this form; compare the infinitive entender with entiendo. Lo is a singular direct-object pronoun meaning “it” here, referring to the understood content. Example: Lo entiendo ahora. — “I understand it now.” me habría gustado: This is the Spanish gustar construction with me as the person affected: literally, “it would have pleased me,” and here “I would have liked.” Habría is the conditional form of haber, and with the past participle gustado it forms a conditional perfect. This form presents a past preference that was not realized. Example: Me habría gustado ir. — “I would have liked to go.” saberlo: saber means “to know” in the sense of knowing information or a fact. Lo is attached to the infinitive as an enclitic pronoun: saber + lo = saberlo, “to know it.” The pronoun keeps the same singular direct-object role as lo in Lo entiendo; the exact information is not named in this sentence. Example: Quiero saberlo. — “I want to know it.” antes: This temporal adverb means “earlier” here, relative to the relevant past point. It can also mean “before” when followed by a reference or clause, as in antes de salir — “before leaving.” Example: Debí llamarte antes. — “I should have called you earlier.” Together, Lo entiendo states the speaker’s present understanding. Pero contrasts that with me habría gustado saberlo antes: the speaker would have preferred to have known the relevant information at an earlier time. The complete meaning is: “I understand it, but I wish I had known it earlier.”

  5. Tienes razón. Debería habértelo dicho en cuanto lo supe.

    You're right. I should have told you as soon as I knew.

    Tienes razón
    You’re right
    Debería
    should
    habértelo dicho
    to have told you
    en cuanto
    as soon as
    supe
    knew
    More detail

    Tienes razón means “You’re right.” Tienes is the second-person singular present form of tener, used here with tú: tener → tienes. In this expression, razón means “being correct” or “the right idea,” not merely a physical reason. A useful pattern is tener razón: “to be right.” Debería is the first-person singular conditional form of deber: deber → debería. Here it expresses what the speaker ought to have done. The conditional combines with the following perfect infinitive to form “should have …”; it is not the listener who should have acted. habértelo dicho means “to have told you.” It consists of haber in the infinitive, followed by the clitics te (“to you”) and lo (“it”), and dicho, the irregular past participle of decir (“to say/tell”): decir → dicho. In this attached-clitic order, te marks the person told and lo marks the thing told. The perfect infinitive haber dicho places the telling before the relevant present point. For example, Debería habértelo explicado means “I should have explained it to you.” en cuanto is a conjunction meaning “as soon as” when it introduces an event that sets the timing for another event. It is a reusable time pattern: en cuanto + clause. supe is the first-person singular preterite form of saber: saber → supe. In this sentence it means “I knew” or, more specifically, “I found out,” referring to the point when the speaker learned the information. The preterite presents that knowing as a completed event. For example, Lo supe ayer means “I found out yesterday.” Together, Debería habértelo dicho expresses that the speaker ought to have told the listener something, and en cuanto lo supe sets the time: this should have happened as soon as the speaker learned it. The complete utterance is therefore: “You’re right. I should have told you as soon as I knew.”

  6. Te lo agradezco. Ya había empezado a prepararme.

    I appreciate that. I had already started getting ready.

    Te lo agradezco
    I appreciate that/it
    Ya
    already
    había empezado
    had started
    prepararme
    to get ready
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    Te lo agradezco means “I appreciate that/it.” agradezco is the first-person singular present form of agradecer; the understood subject is “I.” te is the indirect-object clitic for the person receiving the appreciation, while lo is the direct-object clitic for the thing or situation appreciated. Here, lo refers neutrally to “that/it,” as reflected in the fixed translation. For a feminine singular thing, Spanish can use Te la agradezco, for example with la ayuda: “I appreciate the help.” Ya is an adverb meaning “already.” Here it says that the starting had occurred before the relevant past reference point; it does not by itself say that the preparation was completed. había empezado expresses “had started.” había is the imperfect indicative form of the auxiliary haber, compatible here with the first-person singular subject identified by the fixed translation. empezado is the past participle of empezar; together, these forms make the pluperfect. A reusable example is Yo ya había empezado. — “I had already started.” prepararme is the infinitive preparar with the clitic me attached. In this reflexive use, it means “to get myself ready,” with me referring to the speaker. The full pattern here is empezar a + infinitive, meaning “to start to do something”: Necesito prepararme. — “I need to get ready.” Together, ya + había empezado places the starting event before a past reference point, and a prepararme identifies what had begun. The complete utterance therefore means: “I appreciate that. I had already started getting ready.”

  7. Déjame compensártelo eligiendo otra fecha que te venga bien.

    Let me make it up to you by choosing another date that works for you.

    Déjame
    Let me
    compensártelo
    make it up to you
    eligiendo
    choosing
    otra
    another
    fecha
    date
    te venga bien
    works for you
    More detail

    Déjame combines the affirmative tú command deja (“let”) with the attached pronoun me (“me”). In this construction, dejar + me means “let me …”; the accent marks the pronunciation required after attaching the pronoun. Example: Déjame ayudarte. = “Let me help you.” compensártelo is compensar (“to compensate” or, here, “to make it up to someone”) with two attached pronouns: te for the person receiving the compensation and lo for the thing being compensated or made up for. The observed infinitive is compensar; attaching te and lo produces compensártelo, with an accent to preserve the infinitive’s stress. The exact context does not specify what lo refers to. Example: Quiero compensártelo. = “I want to make it up to you.” eligiendo is the gerund of elegir (“to choose”), used here after by in the meaning “by choosing.” The form is irregular in its stem spelling: elegir becomes eligiendo, not *elegiendo*. Example: Lo resolvió eligiendo otra opción. = “They solved it by choosing another option.” otra is the feminine singular form of otro (“another” or “a different one”). It agrees with the feminine singular noun fecha, rather than carrying the noun’s meaning itself. Compare otro día (“another day”) and otra fecha (“another date”). fecha is a feminine noun meaning “date,” especially a calendar date. Its gender is relevant to the form otra; the noun itself does not mean “another.” Example: Necesito una fecha nueva. = “I need a new date.” te venga bien is the idiomatic pattern venir bien, meaning “to suit someone” or “to work for someone.” Here te marks the person for whom the date works, and venga is the singular present subjunctive form of venir, agreeing with the singular subject understood as fecha. The subjunctive fits the relative clause describing a date being proposed or sought, rather than asserting a known suitable date. Example: Elige la hora que te venga bien. = “Choose the time that works for you.” Together, Déjame compensártelo means “Let me make it up to you,” and eligiendo otra fecha que te venga bien explains how: “by choosing another date that works for you.” The whole utterance is therefore: “Let me make it up to you by choosing another date that works for you.”

  8. Podemos cambiar la fecha, pero confírmamelo cuando las cosas estén más tranquilas.

    We can reschedule, but please confirm once things are calmer.

    Podemos
    we can
    cambiar
    change; reschedule
    fecha
    date
    confírmamelo
    confirm it to me
    cosas
    things
    estén
    are; be
    más tranquilas
    calmer
    More detail

    Podemos is the first-person plural present form of poder: “we can” or “we are able to.” The subject is nosotros/nosotras, but Spanish normally leaves that pronoun unstated. Example: Podemos esperar. — “We can wait.” cambiar is the infinitive “to change.” After podemos, Spanish uses the infinitive: podemos cambiar = “we can change.” In this sentence, cambiar la fecha naturally means “reschedule the date,” while cambiar can also mean “change” more generally. fecha means “date.” It is a feminine noun, as shown by la fecha; the feminine form is a grammatical property of this noun, not a statement about the date itself. Example: La fecha es flexible. — “The date is flexible.” confírmamelo combines the affirmative command confirma (“confirm,” addressed to one tú) with the object pronouns me (“to me”) and lo (“it”). When these pronouns attach to the command, the written accent preserves the original stress: confírmamelo. The exact command form is therefore a singular tú command, not an usted or plural command. lo is masculine singular in form, but the fixed input does not uniquely identify the specific thing it replaces; the whole expression means “confirm it to me.” Example: Confírmamelo mañana. — “Confirm it to me tomorrow.” cosas is the plural of cosa, “thing.” Here it is the subject of the later clause. las cosas means “things” in the intended general sense, without specifying particular things. estén is the present subjunctive, third-person plural form of estar (“to be”). It agrees with plural las cosas. After cuando, Spanish commonly uses the subjunctive for a future or not-yet-realized time: cuando las cosas estén... = “once things are...” This is not the ordinary present indicative están, which would present the situation as a current fact. más tranquilas means “calmer” or, literally, “more calm.” tranquilas is the feminine plural form of tranquilo/tranquila, agreeing with cosas; más marks the comparison. The adjective is compared here, not the noun: cosas más tranquilas means “calmer things/situations.” Example: Hablaremos cuando estés más tranquilo. — “We’ll talk when you are calmer.” Together, Podemos cambiar la fecha says “We can reschedule the date.” pero introduces a contrast, and confírmamelo adds the request “confirm it to me.” The time clause cuando las cosas estén más tranquilas means “once things are calmer.” The complete meaning is: “We can reschedule, but please confirm once things are calmer.”

  9. Te escribiré cuando sepa más.

    I'll message you when I know more.

    Te
    you
    escribiré
    I’ll write/message
    cuando
    when
    sepa
    know
    más
    more
    More detail

    Te is the unstressed pronoun meaning “you” here. With escribir in the sense of writing to someone, it functions as an indirect-object clitic: te escribiré means “I will write/message you.” The form te does not itself show whether “you” is singular or plural; that must come from context. escribiré comes from escribir, “to write.” The ending -é marks the first-person singular simple future, so escribiré means “I will write.” In this sentence, the translation supports the natural messaging sense. Compare escribo (“I write/am writing”) with escribiré (“I will write”). cuando introduces a time clause: “when.” For a future event, Spanish commonly uses cuando followed by the subjunctive rather than the indicative. Example: Te llamaré cuando llegue. — “I’ll call you when I arrive.” sepa is the first-person singular present subjunctive of saber, “to know.” Here it means “know” in the time clause and refers to knowledge available at a future moment. Other present-subjunctive forms include sepas (“you know”) and sepamos (“we know”); their endings identify different subjects. más is the adverb “more.” Its accent distinguishes it from mas, a less common conjunction meaning “but.” Here más refers to knowing more information. Together, te escribiré gives “I will write/message you,” and cuando sepa más gives “when I know more.” The complete utterance is: “I’ll message you when I know more.”

  10. Sé que el cambio de última hora alteró tu noche.

    I know the late change disrupted your evening.

    Sé que
    I know that
    cambio
    change
    última
    last
    hora
    hour
    alteró
    disrupted
    noche
    evening; night
    More detail

    Sé que uses sé, the first-person singular present form of saber (“to know”), followed by que to introduce what is known. The accent in sé distinguishes this verb form from se, which has other grammatical uses. Example: Sé que tienes razón. — “I know that you are right.” cambio is the masculine singular noun “change.” Here it is the subject of alteró: el cambio means “the change.” The same noun can describe a change in plans, conditions, or another situation; the sentence specifies this one as a late change through the following phrase. última is the feminine singular form of the adjective último, agreeing with feminine singular hora. In de última hora, the whole expression means “last-minute” or “late,” rather than simply identifying an hour. Example: Recibimos una noticia de última hora. — “We received a last-minute news report.” hora is the feminine noun “hour.” In the fixed expression de última hora, it helps form the adjective-like meaning “last-minute.” On its own, hora refers to an hour or time of day. alteró is the third-person singular preterite of alterar, “to disrupt” or “to alter.” The ending identifies a completed past event with a singular subject; here, that subject is el cambio. Example: El ruido alteró la reunión. — “The noise disrupted the meeting.” noche is the feminine noun “night.” In this sentence, the fixed translation supports the meaning “evening,” referring to the listener’s evening through the possessive tu. Depending on context, noche can also refer more broadly to nighttime. Together, el cambio de última hora means “the late change”: de última hora describes the change. alteró tu noche says that this change disrupted the other person’s evening, with tu marking it as belonging to or concerning that person. The complete utterance means “I know the late change disrupted your evening.”

  11. Espero que todo esté bien con tu familia.

    I hope everything is all right with your family.

    Espero que
    I hope that…
    todo
    everything
    esté bien
    be all right
    familia
    family
    More detail

    Espero que contains espero, the first-person singular present form of esperar (“to hope”), with an unstated subject yo. In Spanish, esperar que normally introduces a clause in the subjunctive when expressing hope about a situation: Espero que estés bien. — “I hope you are well.” Here, que links the hope to the following situation; it does not mean “because.” todo means “everything” here. It is a singular indefinite pronoun, so the following verb is singular: todo está... or, in this sentence, todo esté.... Its meaning is broader than a specific object or person. esté bien uses esté, the present subjunctive, third-person singular form of estar; its base form is estar. bien is an adverb meaning “well” or “all right,” and together they describe a satisfactory state. Compare está bien (“it is all right”) as a statement with Espero que esté bien (“I hope it is all right”) inside a hope clause. familia is a singular noun meaning “family”; its plural is familias. The full noun phrase is tu familia: tu is the informal singular “your” possessive, and it does not take an accent here. The preposition con means “with.” Together, Espero que expresses hope, todo esté bien says that everything is in an all-right state, and con tu familia specifies the area of concern. The complete meaning is: “I hope everything is all right with your family.”

Grammar Points

Espero que + subjuntivo

Espero que todo esté bien

ehs-PEH-roh keh TOH-doh ehs-TEH BYEHN

I hope everything is all right

After espero que, use the subjunctive for a hope or wish. esté is the subjunctive form.

cuando + subjuntivo

cuando sepa más

KWAHN-doh SEH-pah mahs

when I know more

Use the subjunctive after cuando for a future or not-yet-known action. sepa is the subjunctive form.

Spanish Vocabulary

cancelar verb
kahn-seh-LAR to cancel
esta noche phrase
EH-stah NOH-cheh tonight
familiar adj
fah-mee-LYAR family-related
Lo siento mucho phrase
loh SYEHN-toh MOO-choh I'm really sorry
pasó verb
pah-SOH happened
plan noun
PLAHN plan
problema noun
proh-BLEH-mah problem
Qué decepción phrase
keh deh-sehp-SYOHN That's disappointing
salir de casa phrase
sah-LEER deh KAH-sah to leave home
surgió verb
soor-HYOH came up
tener que phrase
teh-NEHR keh to have to
urgente adj
oor-HEN-teh urgent

Quiz

Word Order

Arrange the words in the correct order.

That's disappointing. Did something urgent happen?

Show AnswerQué decepción. ¿Pasó algo urgente?

I'll message you when I know more.

Show AnswerTe escribiré cuando sepa más.

Spelling

Tap the letters to spell the word.

to cancel

Show Answercancelar

happened

Show Answerpasó

urgent

Show Answerurgente

came up

Show Answersurgió