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1. 검토하는 동안 많이 답답해 보이셨어요.

   I noticed you seemed frustrated during the review.

   검토하는 동안

   during the review

   많이

   quite; noticeably

   답답해

   frustrated

   보이셨어요

   seemed

   More detail

   검토하는 동안 means “during the review.” 검토하다 means “to review,” and 검토하는 is its present attributive form, used here before 동안 (“during the time when…”). The pattern 동사-는 동안 is reusable: 공부하는 동안 means “while studying.” Example: 회의하는 동안 메모했어요. — “I took notes during the meeting.” 많이 is an adverb meaning “a lot” or, with an appearance or feeling, “noticeably.” Here it strengthens the impression of frustration: the person looked noticeably frustrated. Example: 많이 피곤해 보여요. — “You look very tired.” 답답해 is the 해-form of the descriptive verb 답답하다. In this sentence it contributes “frustrated” or “distressed.” 답답하다 can also describe something that feels stifling or obstructed, so its exact English meaning comes from the context. The form 답답해 connects to the following 보이다 in the pattern 형용사-아/어 보이다, meaning “seem/look adjective.” 보이셨어요 comes from 보이다, “to look” or “to seem.” In 답답해 보이셨어요, it is the polite past form with the honorific marker -시-: 보이- + 시- + 었- + 어요. The honorific marks respect toward the person being described; it does not itself mean “you.” The omitted subject is understood here as “you” because that is the participant identified by the fixed translation. Example: 어려워 보이셨어요. — “You seemed to find it difficult.” Together, 답답해 보이셨어요 means “seemed frustrated,” while 많이 makes that impression stronger. Adding 검토하는 동안 places the impression during the review. Thus the complete utterance means: “I noticed you seemed frustrated during the review.”

2. 그랬어요. 하지만 그 감정이 상황을 지배하게 두지는 않으려고 했어요.

   I was, although I tried not to let it dominate.

   그랬어요

   I was like that

   하지만

   but

   그

   that

   감정

   emotion

   상황

   situation

   지배하게 … 두지는

   let dominate

   않으려고 했어요

   tried not to

   More detail

   그랬어요 is the polite past form of 그렇다, meaning “was like that” here. The form 그렇다 → 그래요 → 그랬어요 is a useful pattern: the first is the base form, the second is present polite, and the third is past polite. In this sentence, “that” refers to the state established by the fixed meaning and context; the form itself does not identify a separate noun. 하지만 means “but” and marks a contrast between the preceding statement and what follows. 그 is a demonstrative meaning “that” in 그 감정. It identifies the emotion as contextually known; it does not by itself specify physical distance or add a quantity. 감정 means “emotion” or “feeling.” The noun can be reused in combinations such as 감정을 표현하다 (“express an emotion”) and 감정을 억누르다 (“suppress an emotion”). 상황 means “situation.” In 상황을, the particle 을 marks 상황 as the object of the following action. Thus, the situation is what is affected by the emotion’s dominance. 지배하게 comes from the verb 지배하다, “to dominate” or “to control.” The ending -게 connects it to 두다 in the pattern V-게 두다, meaning “let or allow someone/something to do V.” Here, 지배하게 means “to dominate” within that pattern; it is not an adjective modifying 상황. 두지는 is 두다 (“leave; let; allow”) with -지는, the form used in the contrastive negative pattern -지는 않다. In 지배하게 두지는 않다, the speaker says they do not let the emotion dominate the situation, with contrastive emphasis on that choice. -지는 않다 can be reused after a verb phrase: 잊지는 않아요 means “I don’t forget it, at least.” 않으려고 했어요 expresses “tried not to” or “intended not to.” 않다 is the negative verb, and -으려고 하다 expresses an intention or attempt; 했어요 is the polite past form of 하다 inside that construction. After a vowel, the related form is -려고 하다, as in 가려고 했어요 (“I tried/intended to go”). Together, 그 감정이 marks “that emotion” as the subject, 상황을 지배하게 두지는 describes not allowing it to dominate “the situation,” and 않으려고 했어요 makes this a past attempt. The whole utterance means: “I was like that, but I tried not to let that emotion dominate the situation.”

3. 의견은 직접적이었지만, 업무를 대상으로 한 것이었어요.

   The comments were direct, but they were aimed at the work.

   의견

   opinion; comment

   직접적이었지만

   was direct, but

   업무

   work; business

   대상으로 한 것이었어요

   was aimed at

   More detail

   의견 means “opinion” or, in this sentence, “comments.” It is a noun. The topic marker 은 is attached to it in 의견은, setting the comments as the topic: “As for the comments…” 직접적이었지만 describes the comments as direct and then marks a contrast. The adjective-like form 직접적이다 means “to be direct”; its past form here is 직접적이었다, and -지만 changes it to “was direct, but.” The ending agrees with the past time of the description; it does not itself identify who made the comments. 업무 is a noun meaning “work” or “business/work-related matters.” With the object marker 를, 업무를 is the thing involved in the following targeting construction. In other contexts, 업무 can refer to duties or work tasks, but here the translation supports the broader sense “the work.” 대상으로 한 것이었어요 expresses that something was directed at or targeted toward the work. 대상으로 하다 is a reusable pattern meaning “to make something the target” or “to aim something at something”; here 업무를 대상으로 한 means “aimed at the work.” 것 nominalizes the preceding action or description, and 이었어요 presents it politely in the past: literally, “was the thing that had been aimed at.” The full sequence is a polite past description, not a separate claim that the work itself acted. Together, 의견은 직접적이었지만 means “the comments were direct, but,” and 업무를 대상으로 한 것이었어요 means “they were aimed at the work.” The complete utterance is: “The comments were direct, but they were aimed at the work.” The contrast is between the direct manner of the comments and their target: the work, rather than an explicitly identified person.

4. 이제는 이해하지만, 그 시점은 예상하지 못해서 당황했어요.

   I understand that now, but the timing caught me off guard.

   이제는

   now

   이해하지만

   understand, but

   그

   that

   시점

   point in time; timing

   예상하지 못해서

   because [I] did not anticipate it

   당황했어요

   was caught off guard

   More detail

   이제는 combines 이제 (“now”) with the topic/contrast marker 는. It sets up a contrast between understanding now and the earlier reaction. Example: 이제는 괜찮아요. — “It’s okay now.” 이해하지만 comes from 이해하다 (“to understand”) with the connective ending -지만 (“but/although”). The subject is omitted in Korean and is understood here as the speaker, matching the fixed translation. Example: 이해하지만 동의하지 않아요. — “I understand, but I don’t agree.” 그 is a demonstrative determiner meaning “that.” It modifies the following noun; its form does not itself state a number or a grammatical tense. 시점 is a noun meaning a particular point or stage in time. In 그 시점, it naturally gives “that timing” or “that point in time.” The topic marker in 시점은 makes this timing the topic of the following statement. 예상하지 못해서 is built from 예상하다 (“to anticipate”), -지 못하다 (“not manage to; fail to”), and the causal ending -아서, realized here as -해서 after 못하-. In this sentence it means “because [I] did not anticipate it.” This differs from the ordinary negative 예상하지 않다, which means “do not expect” without the same failure/noncompletion meaning. Example: 그 결과를 예상하지 못했어요. — “I didn’t anticipate that result.” 당황했어요 comes from 당황하다 (“to become flustered; to be caught off guard”). The past polite form -았/었어요 places the reaction in the past. Here it describes the speaker’s reaction, not necessarily panic or lasting distress. Example: 갑작스러운 질문에 당황했어요. — “I was caught off guard by the sudden question.” Together, 이제는 이해하지만 means “I understand that now, but.” 그 시점은 예상하지 못해서 gives the reason involving that timing, and 당황했어요 states the past reaction. The whole utterance means: “I understand that now, but the timing caught me off guard.”

5. 민감한 피드백을 드릴 예정이면 더 미리 알려 드릴 수 있어요.

   We can give you more notice when we expect sensitive feedback.

   민감한

   sensitive

   피드백

   feedback

   드릴 예정이면

   if planning to give it

   더

   more

   미리

   in advance

   알려 드릴 수 있어요

   can let you know

   More detail

   민감한 means “sensitive” here and directly modifies 피드백. It comes from the descriptive verb 민감하다 (“to be sensitive”); 민감한 is its attributive form, used before a noun. Example: 민감한 주제 — “a sensitive topic.” 피드백 is the noun “feedback,” a commonly used loanword in Korean. Together, 민감한 피드백 means “sensitive feedback.” 드릴 예정이면 expresses the condition “if [someone] is planning to give it.” 드리다 is the humble form used for giving something to another person; here it is the lexical verb “give,” not merely a general politeness marker. 드릴 is its form before 예정 (“plan” or “scheduled intention”), and 예정이면 means “if it is planned” or “if [someone] intends to.” The subject of this planned action is understood from the sentence rather than stated separately. Example: 내일 방문할 예정이면 알려 주세요. — “If you plan to visit tomorrow, please let me know.” 더 means “more” and increases the degree of the following timing expression. It helps make 더 미리 mean “further in advance” or “with more advance notice.” 미리 is the adverb “in advance,” referring to something done before the relevant time. Example: 미리 준비했어요. — “I prepared in advance.” 더 미리 is not simply “earlier” in isolation here; with the notification phrase, it means giving notice earlier than otherwise. 알려 드릴 수 있어요 means “can let you know.” 알려 is the connected form of 알리다, “to inform” or “let someone know.” 드리다 follows it as a humble benefactive auxiliary: 알려 드리다 presents informing the other person as something done for them. -ㄹ 수 있어요 expresses ability or possibility in a polite present form. Example: 결과를 알려 드릴 수 있어요. — “I can let you know the result.” Putting the parts together, 민감한 피드백 is “sensitive feedback,” 드릴 예정이면 sets the condition “if we plan to give it,” and 더 미리 알려 드릴 수 있어요 says “we can let you know further in advance.” The whole utterance therefore means: “We can give you more notice when we expect sensitive feedback.”

6. 그러면 그 순간에 더 신중하게 대응하는 데 도움이 될 것 같아요.

   That would help me respond more thoughtfully in the moment.

   그러면

   then; in that case

   순간

   moment

   더

   more

   신중하게

   thoughtfully; carefully

   대응하는

   responding; dealing with

   도움이 될 것 같아요

   seems like it would help

   More detail

   그러면 means “then” or “in that case.” It connects the statement to a previous situation, condition, or suggestion. Here it introduces the consequence relevant to the discussion. 순간 is a noun meaning “moment.” In 그 순간에, the particle 에 marks the time when something happens: “at that moment.” Example: 그 순간에 결정했어요. — “I decided at that moment.” 더 is an adverb meaning “more” or “to a greater degree.” Here it increases the degree of 신중하게, so the response is more thoughtful or careful. It does not itself express a numeric amount. 신중하게 comes from the descriptive verb 신중하다, meaning “to be careful” or “to be thoughtful.” The ending -게 turns that quality into a modifier of an action, so 신중하게 대응하다 means “to respond carefully.” Compare 신중한 대응 (“a careful response”), where 신중한 modifies the noun 대응 directly. 대응하는 comes from the verb 대응하다, “to respond” or “to deal with.” The ending -는 presents the action as a relevant activity and connects it to 데: 대응하는 데 means “in responding” or “for responding.” This is a verb form, not a form derived from the nearby noun 순간. 도움이 될 것 같아요 is a polite expression meaning “it seems like it would help” in this context. 도움 is the noun “help,” and 이 marks it as the subject of 되다, “to become” or “to be.” 될 is 되다 with the attributive ending -ㄹ, presenting the helpfulness as prospective or expected. 것 같아요 expresses that something seems to be the case and softens the assessment. Example: 이 방법이 도움이 될 것 같아요. — “I think this method will be helpful.” Putting the parts together, 그러면 sets up the consequence, 그 순간에 identifies the relevant time, and 더 신중하게 대응하는 데 describes the activity that would benefit. The whole utterance means: “That would help me respond more thoughtfully in the moment.” Korean does not explicitly state the beneficiary “me” in this sentence; that participant is supplied by the fixed translation. The sentence also does not contain a separate object for 도움이 되다; the 도움 phrase is the grammatical subject of that construction.

7. 수정이 필요한 부분에서도 분석은 가치가 있었어요.

   Your analysis was valuable, even where revisions were needed.

   수정

   revision

   필요한

   needed

   부분

   part; section

   에서도

   even in; even at

   분석

   analysis

   가치

   value

   있었어요

   was present; existed

   More detail

   수정이 means “revision” with 이 marking it as the subject of the following modifier. 수정 is a noun; the related verb 수정하다 means “to revise” or “to correct.” Here it refers to the revision needed in the relevant parts, not to an action by a separately named person. 필요한 is the form of 필요하다 (“to be necessary”) used before a noun. The pattern N이 필요한 N means “a N that needs N” or “a N for which N is necessary.” Thus, 수정이 필요한 부분 means “parts where revision is needed.” 필요한 is not a past-tense form; it is an attributive form describing 부분. 부분 means “part” or “section.” It can refer to a portion of a text, task, situation, or other whole. In this sentence, the translation supports the contextual meaning “the parts where revisions were needed.” 에서도 combines 에서 with 도. 에서 marks the place or scope in which something occurs, while 도 adds the meaning “also” or “even.” In 필요한 부분에서도, 도 gives the contrastive sense “even in the parts where revision was needed.” The whole phrase is a scope expression, not a claim that every part needed revision. 분석은 introduces 분석 (“analysis”) as the topic with 은. The related verb 분석하다 means “to analyze,” but the observed word here is the noun 분석, not a verb form. The topic marker presents the analysis as the thing being evaluated. 가치 means “value” or “worth.” A common reusable pattern is 가치가 있다, literally “value exists,” meaning “to be valuable” or “to be worth something.” Here 가치가 is the subject phrase inside that construction; 가치 carries the noun meaning and 가 marks it as the subject. 있었어요 is the polite past form of 있다 (“to exist” or “to be present”). In 가치가 있었어요, it says that value existed, producing the natural meaning “was valuable” or “had value.” The past marking is on 있었어요, not on 가치. Together, 수정이 필요한 부분에서도 sets the concessive scope: “even in the parts where revision was needed.” 분석은 makes “the analysis” the topic, and 가치가 있었어요 states that it had value. The complete meaning is: “Your analysis was valuable, even where revisions were needed.”

8. 그 구분이 있다는 점을 이해하게 되어 감사해요. 그게 제가 비판을 해석하는 방식을 바꿔 주거든요.

   I appreciate that distinction, because it changes how I interpret criticism.

   그

   that

   구분

   distinction

   있다는 점

   the fact that there is

   이해하게 되어

   come to understand, so

   감사해요

   appreciate it

   그게

   that; it

   제가

   I

   비판

   criticism

   해석하는

   interpreting

   방식

   way; manner

   바꿔 주거든요

   changes it for me, you see

   More detail

   그 identifies something as “that,” and here it modifies 구분, giving “that distinction.” Korean demonstratives can identify a referent from the discourse, not only something physically nearby. 이 in 구분이 marks 구분 as the subject of the following existence clause. 구분 means a distinction or differentiation: a separation between meanings, categories, or possibilities. 있다는 점 presents the existence of that distinction as a fact: 있다 means “exist” or “be present,” and -다는 점 packages a proposition as “the point or fact that ….” For example, 차이가 있다는 점을 기억하세요. means “Remember that there is a difference.” 이해하게 되어 is built from 이해하다, “understand,” and -게 되다, which presents coming to a state or result: “come to understand.” The ending -어 connects this result to 감사해요. Thus this is not simply 이해해요, “understand”; it highlights reaching the understanding. 감사해요 means “I appreciate it” or “I’m thankful” in a polite conversational style. Together, 그 구분이 있다는 점을 이해하게 되어 감사해요 expresses appreciation for coming to understand that the distinction exists. 그게 is the conversational contraction of 그것이: 그것, “that thing” or “that matter,” plus the subject marker 이, contracted to 게. Here, consistent with the fixed translation, it refers to the distinction introduced in the first sentence. 제가 is 저, “I,” plus the subject marker 가; 저 is the polite or humble first-person form, contrasting with 나 in suitable less-formal contexts. It marks the person whose way of interpreting is being described. 비판 means “criticism” and is marked by 을 as the object of 해석하다, “interpret.” The phrase 비판을 해석하는 uses the present modifier -는 on 해석하다, so it means “interpreting criticism” and modifies the following noun. A reusable pattern is N을 V-는 방식, “the way of V-ing N.” Example: 문장을 읽는 방식 means “the way of reading sentences.” 방식 means “way” or “manner.” In 비판을 해석하는 방식, it is the noun whose manner is being changed. 바꿔 is the connective form of 바꾸다, “change.” 주거든요 combines -어 주다 with -거든요: -어 주다 presents the action as done for someone or as having an effect for them, while -거든요 gives an explanatory conversational ending, roughly “because” or “you see.” Here 바꿔 주거든요 means that the distinction changes the speaker’s way of interpreting criticism; the wording does not by itself establish that the change is beneficial. As a whole, the utterance says: “I appreciate coming to understand that distinction, because it changes how I interpret criticism.” The second sentence uses 그게 to refer to that distinction and explains its effect on the speaker’s interpretation.