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1. De muziek naast ons heeft me de laatste tijd meerdere nachten wakker gehouden.

   The music next door has kept me up several nights lately.

   muziek

   music

   naast ons

   next door

   heeft

   has

   me

   me

   de laatste tijd

   lately

   meerdere

   several

   nachten

   nights

   wakker

   awake

   gehouden

   kept

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   muziek means “music” here. The noun is singular: de muziek. Dutch uses muziek for music as a substance or activity, normally without making it plural when referring to music generally. Example: Ik luister naar muziek. — “I listen to music.” naast ons literally means “beside us,” and in this sentence it identifies the music as coming from next door. ons is the object form of wij (“we/us”) and can mean “us” after a preposition. The exact referent of “us” is not specified in the supplied sentence. Example: De winkel naast ons is gesloten. — “The shop next door is closed.” heeft is the present singular form of hebben (“to have”). Here it is an auxiliary, not possession: heeft + gehouden forms a present perfect construction. Because the subject de muziek is singular, Dutch uses heeft; a plural subject would use hebben. me is an unstressed object pronoun meaning “me.” Its stressed counterpart is mij; me is common in ordinary speech and writing when contrast is not intended. Example: Ze helpt me. — “She helps me.” de laatste tijd is a time expression meaning “lately” or “recently.” It refers to a period extending up to the present rather than to one single recent moment. Example: De laatste tijd slaap ik weinig. — “Lately, I sleep little.” meerdere means “several” or “multiple.” It indicates more than one, without specifying the exact number. It is used before a plural noun, as in meerdere nachten; it is not itself an exact numeral. Example: We hebben meerdere opties. — “We have several options.” nachten is the plural of nacht (“night”): nacht → nachten. The sentence therefore refers to more than one night. Example: Ik werk soms 's nachts. — “I sometimes work at night.” wakker means “awake.” In iemand wakker houden, it is part of a reusable pattern meaning “to keep someone awake”: iemand is the person affected, and wakker describes that person's state. Example: Het lawaai houdt de baby wakker. — “The noise keeps the baby awake.” gehouden is the past participle of houden (“to keep/hold”). The useful form chain is houden → hield (simple past) → gehouden (past participle). In this sentence, gehouden combines with the auxiliary heeft in heeft ... wakker gehouden, meaning “has kept ... awake.” Together, de muziek naast ons is the subject, and heeft ... gehouden presents the keeping-awake effect as occurring over a recent period and relevant now. me is the person affected, while meerdere nachten specifies that this happened on several nights. Thus the full utterance means: “The music next door has kept me up several nights lately.”

2. Dan moeten we met ze praten voordat het een groter conflict wordt.

   Then we should talk to them before it becomes a bigger conflict.

   Dan

   then

   moeten we

   we should

   met ze

   with them

   praten

   talk

   voordat

   before

   het

   it

   groter

   bigger

   conflict

   conflict

   wordt

   becomes

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   Dan means “then” and links this sentence to the situation already being discussed. At the beginning of a main clause, it is followed by inversion: Dan moeten we ..., with the finite verb before the subject. moeten we contains moeten, the base form of the modal verb meaning “must” or “have to,” plus we, “we.” In this context, the fixed translation uses the less forceful “should.” The modal is followed by the infinitive: We moeten praten = “We should/must talk.” met ze means “with them.” ze is the object of met here and refers to the people the speaker and listener intend to talk to; its specific referent is supported by the translation and context. ze is a common unstressed form for “them” and can also have other functions in Dutch, so its role comes from this construction. met is the preposition “with.” praten is the infinitive “to talk.” It follows the modal moeten; Dutch modal constructions use the infinitive for the other verb. Example: We moeten wachten. — “We have to wait.” voordat means “before” and introduces a subordinate clause. In that clause, the finite verb normally comes at the end: voordat het ... wordt. het is the neuter singular pronoun used as the subject of wordt in this clause. Here it corresponds to “it” in the fixed translation: the situation is understood to become a conflict, without the sentence naming that situation again. groter means “bigger” or “larger.” It is the comparative form of groot (“big/large”): groot → groter → het grootst (“big” → “bigger” → “the biggest”). In een groter conflict, it describes conflict, not the preceding pronoun. Example: Dit probleem wordt groter. — “This problem is becoming bigger.” conflict is the noun “conflict.” In een groter conflict, een is the indefinite article “a/an”; it does not by itself assert a numeric count. The phrase means “a bigger conflict.” wordt is the third-person singular present form of worden, “to become” or “to get.” The subject here is singular het, so Dutch uses wordt. The same form can also mean “is being” in a passive construction, but the following noun phrase here gives the “becomes” meaning. Example: Het wordt stil. — “It becomes quiet.” Together, Dan moeten we met ze praten means “Then we should talk to them.” The subordinate clause voordat het een groter conflict wordt adds the time condition “before it becomes a bigger conflict.” The complete utterance is therefore: “Then we should talk to them before it becomes a bigger conflict.”

3. Ik wil niet dramatisch klinken, omdat ze misschien niet beseffen dat de muziek hard staat.

   I do not want to sound dramatic, because they may not realize it is loud.

   Ik wil

   I want

   niet

   not

   dramatisch

   dramatic

   klinken

   sound

   omdat

   because

   ze

   they

   misschien

   maybe

   beseffen

   realize

   dat

   that

   muziek

   music

   hard

   loud

   staat

   is set

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   Ik wil is the present-tense form of willen (“to want”) for ik (“I”). The pattern ik wil is followed by an infinitive: Ik wil leren. — “I want to learn.” niet negates what follows here: the speaker does not want to sound dramatic. In Dutch, niet often appears before the part being negated; the full combination Ik wil niet ... means “I do not want to ...”. dramatisch means “dramatic” here, describing the impression the speaker might give. It is an adjective, and it also appears in the fixed expression dramatisch klinken, “to sound dramatic.” klinken is the infinitive of klinken, “to sound.” After willen, Dutch uses the infinitive: Ik wil rustig klinken. — “I want to sound calm.” This verb concerns how something sounds or comes across, not the physical act of producing a sound alone. omdat introduces a reason and means “because.” It starts a subordinate clause. In that clause, the finite verb comes later: omdat ze het niet weten — “because they do not know it.” ze is the subject pronoun meaning “they” in this sentence, as fixed by the translation. The form ze can also be an unstressed form of “she,” but that is not the intended reading here. Its grammatical role here is plural subject; it does not itself show gender. misschien means “maybe” or “perhaps.” It marks the possibility that follows, without asserting that it is true: Misschien komt hij later. — “Maybe he will come later.” beseffen is the infinitive “to realize” or “to be aware of.” With the plural subject ze, the present form is also beseffen: Ze beseffen het probleem. — “They realize the problem.” The form differs with a singular subject: Hij beseft het probleem. — “He realizes the problem.” dat introduces the content of what the people may not realize: “that ...”. In this sentence it begins the clause dat de muziek hard staat, rather than functioning as the earlier reason word omdat. muziek means “music.” The noun phrase here is de muziek, with the definite article de; the article identifies the music in the intended situation, while muziek is the noun itself. De muziek is zacht. — “The music is quiet.” hard means “loud” in this context. It is the adjective/adverb describing the volume of the music, not the physical quality “hard” as opposed to soft. The contrast for volume is zacht: De muziek staat zacht. — “The music is playing quietly.” staat is the present-tense form of staan, “to stand,” but in de muziek staat hard it is part of the Dutch expression for audio being set or playing at a high volume. With a singular subject such as de muziek, the form is staat; with a plural subject, staan: De luidsprekers staan hard. — “The speakers are playing loudly.” Together, Ik wil niet dramatisch klinken says “I do not want to sound dramatic.” The reason is omdat ze misschien niet beseffen dat de muziek hard staat: “because they may not realize that the music is loud.” Misschien makes the realization uncertain, and niet beseffen negates it. The complete utterance therefore means: “I do not want to sound dramatic, because they may not realize it is loud.”

4. Begin door te zeggen dat de muren dun zijn en dat je vroeg moet slapen.

   Start by saying the walls are thin and you need to sleep early.

   Begin

   start

   door te zeggen

   by saying

   muren

   walls

   dun

   thin

   zijn

   are; be

   vroeg

   early

   moet

   need to; must

   slapen

   sleep

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   Begin is the imperative of beginnen (“to begin”). It gives a direct instruction; the subject is normally understood. The same imperative form can address one person or several people. Example: Begin nu. — “Start now.” door te zeggen is a reusable way to express “by saying”. The pattern door te + infinitive describes the method used to do something: Je leert door te oefenen. — “You learn by practising.” Here, zeggen is the infinitive “to say”, and te marks it in this construction. muren means “walls”. Its singular is muur, and its plural is muren: De muur is dik. — “The wall is thick.” dun means “thin”. In de muren dun zijn, it is a predicate adjective describing the walls. Dutch predicative adjectives normally do not take a plural ending here: De muren zijn dun. — “The walls are thin.” Before a noun, the form can differ: dunne muren — “thin walls.” zijn is the present-tense form of zijn (“to be”) used with the plural subject de muren. It is also identical in spelling to the infinitive. In the subordinate clause dat de muren dun zijn, the finite verb appears at the end. vroeg means “early” here and modifies slapen. It is not the comparative form “earlier”; the usual comparative is vroeger: Ik sta vroeg op. — “I get up early.” moet is the present-tense form of the modal verb moeten (“must; need to”) used with the singular subject je. The infinitive is moeten; with a plural subject, the present form is moeten, while formal singular u takes moet: Je moet gaan. — “You must go.” A modal verb is followed by an infinitive without te. slapen is the infinitive “to sleep”. After moet, it remains an infinitive and appears at the end of this subordinate clause: Je moet vroeg slapen. — “You need to sleep early.” Together, Begin door te zeggen gives the instruction “Start by saying”. The first dat introduces the content to say: de muren dun zijn, “the walls are thin”. The second dat introduces a coordinated content clause: je vroeg moet slapen, “you need to sleep early”. In that subordinate clause, moet comes before the infinitive slapen. The complete utterance means: “Start by saying the walls are thin and that you need to sleep early.”

5. Moeten we de huisregels over de stille uren noemen?

   Should we mention the building rules about quiet hours?

   Moeten we

   should we

   de huisregels

   the building rules

   over

   about

   stille

   quiet

   uren

   hours

   noemen

   mention

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   Moeten we means “should we” here. moeten is the infinitive of moeten, a modal verb meaning “must” or, in a question about a proposed action, “should.” The present-tense form for we is also moeten: we moeten = “we must/should.” The subject comes after the modal in this yes/no question, as in Moeten we wachten? — “Should we wait?” de huisregels means “the building rules.” huisregel is a compound noun meaning “house/building rule”; its plural is huisregels. The plural definite article is de, so de huisregels refers to the rules as an identified set. Dutch compounds are written as one word: huis + regel becomes huisregel. over means “about” in this phrase. It introduces the topic of the rules: regels over geluid means “rules about noise.” stille means “quiet” here. Its base form is stil. Before a noun with the definite article de, the adjective normally takes -e: de stille uren. This adjective describes uren, not regels. uren means “hours.” It is the plural of uur: een uur = “an hour,” twee uren = “two hours.” In this phrase, stille uren is the noun phrase “quiet hours.” noemen means “mention” here. It is the infinitive used after the modal verb moeten; the modal carries the finite verb form, while noemen stays in the infinitive. For example, We moeten het probleem noemen. means “We should mention the problem.” Together, de huisregels over de stille uren means “the building rules about quiet hours.” The full question asks whether the speakers should mention those rules: “Should we mention the building rules about quiet hours?”

6. Alleen als ze niet willen meewerken. In het begin is een vriendelijke herinnering redelijker.

   Only if they refuse to cooperate. A friendly reminder is more reasonable at first.

   Alleen als

   only if

   ze

   they

   willen

   are willing to

   meewerken

   cooperate

   In het begin

   at first

   vriendelijke

   friendly

   herinnering

   reminder

   redelijker

   more reasonable

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   Alleen als introduces a condition with an exclusive limit: the implied action applies only under the condition that follows. The pattern alleen als + clause means “only if ...”. Here als introduces the condition, while alleen restricts it. ze is the subject pronoun meaning “they” in this sentence. The fixed translation supports its third-person plural meaning, but the supplied texts do not uniquely identify who “they” are. Dutch also uses ze as an unstressed form for “she” in other contexts, so the intended number here comes from this sentence’s meaning, not from the spelling alone. willen is the present-tense plural form of willen, “to want” or “to be willing”. The useful present-tense contrast is ik wil (“I want”) versus wij/jullie/zij willen (“we/you/they want”). With a following infinitive, it expresses willingness to do something: Ze willen helpen means “They want to help.” meewerken is the infinitive meaning “to cooperate” or “to collaborate”. After a modal-like verb such as willen, the following verb stays in the infinitive: ze willen meewerken means “they are willing to cooperate”. The negation niet makes this ze willen niet meewerken, meaning “they are not willing to cooperate”; in the fixed translation, this is naturally rendered as “they refuse to cooperate”. In het begin is a time expression meaning “at first” or “in the beginning”. It places the recommendation in the initial stage of the situation. A reusable example is In het begin is alles moeilijk, “At first, everything is difficult.” vriendelijke is the attributive form of the adjective vriendelijk, “friendly”. It appears before the noun herinnering; in this noun phrase, the adjective has the -e form: een vriendelijke herinnering. This describes the reminder as friendly rather than harsh. For example, een vriendelijke boodschap means “a friendly message.” herinnering is a noun meaning “reminder”. The phrase een herinnering refers to a reminder without asserting a numeric count; een is the indefinite article here. The related verb herinneren means “to remind” or “to remember”, but herinnering is the noun used in the fixed sentence. redelijker is the comparative form of the adjective redelijk, “reasonable”. The comparison chain is redelijk → redelijker → redelijkst(e): reasonable → more reasonable → most reasonable. The -er belongs to redelijk, not to herinnering. A short example is Deze oplossing is redelijker, “This solution is more reasonable.” Together, Alleen als ze niet willen meewerken means “Only if they refuse to cooperate.” It is a conditional fragment: the condition is lack of willingness to cooperate, and alleen makes that condition restrictive. In het begin is een vriendelijke herinnering redelijker means “A friendly reminder is more reasonable at first.” The subject is een vriendelijke herinnering, and redelijker is the predicate adjective describing that reminder as the more reasonable approach at the beginning.

7. Misschien kunnen we voorstellen dat ze later op de avond een koptelefoon gebruiken als we de volgende dag moeten werken.

   Maybe we can suggest that they use headphones later in the evening when we have work the next day.

   Misschien

   maybe

   kunnen we

   we can

   voorstellen

   suggest

   ze

   they

   later

   later

   avond

   evening

   koptelefoon

   headphones

   gebruiken

   use

   volgende

   next

   dag

   day

   moeten

   have to

   werken

   work

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   Misschien means “maybe” here. It presents the proposal as possible rather than certain. A useful reusable expression is misschien niet (“maybe not”), which changes the polarity of the following proposition. kunnen we combines the modal verb kunnen (“can/be able to”) with the first-person plural pronoun we (“we”). With we, the present form is kunnen; the related singular form is kan, as in ik kan (“I can”). Here kunnen is followed by the infinitive voorstellen. Because Misschien comes first, the finite verb appears before the subject: Misschien kunnen we .... This is verb-second statement order, not question-like inversion. voorstellen is the infinitive meaning “to suggest” in this context. A reusable pattern is voorstellen dat ... (“suggest that ...”). The same form can have other meanings, such as “introduce” or “propose”; the dat-clause identifies the meaning used here. ze is the pronoun translated here as “they.” It is the plural third-person subject of the subordinate clause. This form does not mark gender; its specific referent is supplied by the context and translation, not by the spelling alone. later means “later,” referring to a time after an understood earlier point. Example: We komen later. — “We’ll come later.” avond is the noun “evening.” In the larger expression later op de avond, it contributes “evening” to the meaning “later in the evening.” Avond is a singular noun; the definite phrase de avond refers to a particular evening period in context. koptelefoon is the noun for a headphone set or headphones. In een koptelefoon, the singular form refers to one device; its plural is koptelefoons. Here een koptelefoon is the object that they are to use. gebruiken is the infinitive “to use.” It is the lexical verb of the dat-clause: ze ... gebruiken means “they use ...” The earlier modal kunnen governs voorstellen, while gebruiken describes the action contained in the suggestion. volgende is the adjective “next” in de volgende dag, “the next day.” Its -e form is used here because it modifies the singular common-gender noun dag inside a definite noun phrase with de. This ending belongs to the adjective, not to dag. A useful contrast is de vorige dag (“the previous day”). dag is the noun “day.” In de volgende dag, it is the head noun and volgende specifies which day. Its plural is dagen (“days”), but the fixed sentence uses the singular. moeten is the modal verb “must/have to.” With we, the present form is moeten; it is identical in shape to the infinitive. In the subordinate clause, it combines with werken: we ... moeten werken means “we have to work.” The fixed translation renders this as “when we have work,” while the Dutch wording directly expresses the necessity. werken is the infinitive “to work.” After the modal moeten, Dutch uses the infinitive: we moeten werken. Example: We werken morgen. — “We work tomorrow.” Taken together, Misschien kunnen we voorstellen means “Maybe we can suggest.” The dat-clause gives the content of the suggestion: ze ... een koptelefoon gebruiken, “that they use headphones.” Later op de avond places the use later in the evening, and als we de volgende dag moeten werken gives the condition “when we have to work the next day.” The complete meaning is: “Maybe we can suggest that they use headphones later in the evening when we have work the next day.”

8. Dat zou een praktisch compromis zijn, zonder hen rechtstreeks te beschuldigen.

   That would be a practical compromise, and it does not accuse them directly.

   Dat zou

   That would

   praktisch

   practical

   compromis

   compromise

   zijn

   be

   zonder

   without

   hen

   them

   rechtstreeks

   directly

   beschuldigen

   accuse

   More detail

   Dat zou combines dat (“that”) with zou, the form of zullen used here for “would.” In this sentence, dat points to the proposed solution or arrangement, and zou presents it as a hypothetical result rather than a firm fact. A useful pattern is Dat zou ... zijn — “That would be ...”. praktisch means “practical” here: useful or workable in the situation. It is an adjective. In een praktisch compromis, it has no -e because compromis is a singular neuter noun preceded by the indefinite article een. This ending is determined by the noun phrase as a whole, not by the adjective alone. compromis is the noun “compromise.” Its plural is compromissen. Example: We zoeken een compromis. — “We are looking for a compromise.” zijn is the infinitive “to be.” Together with zou, it forms zou ... zijn, “would be.” The infinitive follows this modal construction: Het zou beter zijn. — “It would be better.” zonder means “without.” Before an action, Dutch commonly uses zonder + te + infinitive: zonder te wachten — “without waiting.” Here the following infinitive is beschuldigen, so zonder ... te beschuldigen means “without accusing ...”. hen is the stressed object pronoun “them.” It refers to the people identified as “them” in the fixed translation. Dutch also has unstressed ze for “them” in suitable contexts, but hen is the explicit object form used here. rechtstreeks is an adverb meaning “directly” or “straightforwardly.” It modifies the action of accusing, not the noun hen. Example: Zeg het rechtstreeks. — “Say it directly.” beschuldigen is the infinitive “to accuse.” It commonly takes the person accused as its object, as in iemand beschuldigen — “to accuse someone.” In this sentence, te beschuldigen is the infinitive required after zonder; hen is the object and rechtstreeks describes how the accusation would be made. Taken together, Dat zou een praktisch compromis zijn means “That would be a practical compromise.” The second part, zonder hen rechtstreeks te beschuldigen, adds the condition or manner: it would achieve that without directly accusing them. The complete intended meaning is: “That would be a practical compromise, and it does not accuse them directly.”

9. Ik kan vanavond een rustig moment kiezen om met ze te praten.

   I can choose a calm moment this evening to talk to them.

   Ik kan

   I can

   vanavond

   this evening

   een

   a

   rustig

   calm

   moment

   moment

   kiezen

   choose

   om … te praten

   to talk

   met ze

   with them

   More detail

   Ik kan expresses “I can.” kan is the present-tense first-person singular form of kunnen (“can, be able to”); the subject Ik identifies the person who has the ability or possibility. A modal verb such as kan is followed by an infinitive: Ik kan kiezen means “I can choose.” vanavond means “this evening” and is a time adverb. It can be placed in different positions depending on emphasis, for example: Ik werk vanavond. — “I am working this evening.” een is an indefinite article, roughly “a” or “an.” Here it introduces moment; by itself, it does not state a numerical count. rustig means “calm” here. It describes the quality of the moment. In een rustig moment, the adjective has no -e ending because moment is a singular neuter noun used with an indefinite article. Compare het rustige moment, where the definite article gives the adjective -e. moment is the noun “moment.” Its useful definite form is het moment (“the moment”); the noun is neuter. The phrase een rustig moment therefore means “a calm moment,” without specifying which moment. kiezen is the infinitive “to choose.” The form after the modal is the infinitive, so kan kiezen means “can choose.” Its past-tense form is koos (“chose”), while the past participle is gekozen (“chosen”): Ik heb een moment gekozen. — “I have chosen a moment.” om ... te praten forms an infinitive construction meaning “to talk” in this sentence. te marks the infinitive praten; together, the construction explains the purpose or intended activity associated with choosing the moment. praten means “to talk” or “to speak.” For example: Ik kom om te praten. — “I am coming to talk.” met ze means “with them.” ze is the common unstressed third-person plural pronoun in this use, and met introduces the people included in the conversation. A more emphatic or formal object form after a preposition can be hen, as in met hen; the supplied sentence uses the natural conversational form met ze. Together, Ik kan + vanavond gives “I can this evening,” een rustig moment kiezen gives “choose a calm moment,” om te praten gives “to talk,” and met ze gives “with them.” The complete meaning is: “I can choose a calm moment this evening to talk to them.”

10. Een rustig moment voorkomt meestal dat een klein probleem persoonlijk wordt.

    Calm timing usually prevents a small problem from becoming personal.

    rustig

    calm

    moment

    moment

    voorkomt

    prevents

    meestal

    usually

    klein

    small

    probleem

    problem

    persoonlijk

    personal

    wordt

    becomes

    More detail

    rustig describes moment here: “calm” or “quiet.” It is the base form of the adjective. In attributive use, Dutch adjectives often take -e, but after the indefinite article een with a singular neuter noun, the form is rustig: een rustig moment. A useful comparison is rustiger “calmer/quieter.” moment is the noun “moment.” The phrase een rustig moment means “a calm moment”; een is an indefinite article and does not by itself assert a numeric count. The previous sentence uses the same noun phrase, een rustig moment, for a moment that can be chosen. voorkomt means “prevents” in this sentence. It is the present-tense third-person singular form of voorkomen in the sense “to prevent”: een rustig moment voorkomt .... The singular subject is why the finite verb has the -t form. For example, Een plan voorkomt fouten means “A plan prevents mistakes.” meestal is the adverb “usually,” expressing frequency. It modifies the prevention described by voorkomt, so the sentence says that this prevention generally happens, not that it happens without exception. The words dat een klein probleem persoonlijk wordt form the content of what is prevented. Dutch dat introduces this subordinate clause, and the finite verb appears at the end: ... dat ... wordt. klein means “small.” It modifies probleem in een klein probleem. Here it has no -e because it is an attributive adjective before a singular neuter noun after the indefinite article een. The relevant contrast is een klein probleem but het kleine probleem. probleem is the noun “problem.” Its standard article is het: het probleem. In this sentence it is the subject of the subordinate clause, the thing that can become personal. persoonlijk means “personal” here. It is a predicate adjective after wordt, so it describes the resulting state rather than directly modifying the noun. In this use it does not take the attributive -e: persoonlijk worden means “become personal.” wordt is the third-person singular present form of worden, “to become” in this construction. Dutch worden can also function in passive constructions, but with the adjective persoonlijk here it expresses a change of state: the problem becomes personal. The pattern is iets wordt + adjective, as in Het wordt moeilijk — “It becomes difficult” or, depending on context, “It is becoming difficult.” Taken together, Een rustig moment is the singular subject, voorkomt means “prevents,” and meestal adds “usually.” The object of prevention is the dat-clause: een klein probleem persoonlijk wordt, “a small problem becomes personal.” Thus the whole utterance means: “A calm moment usually prevents a small problem from becoming personal.”