Apologizing for changing plans | Learn Chinese in English

Chinese lesson set in a contemporary Shanghai everyday setting: While adjusting plans with a friend, one person apologizes for an unexpected change and they choose another day..

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Dialogue

A

对不起,我需要改变我们的计划。

duìbuqǐ, wǒ xūyào gǎibiàn wǒmen de jìhuà. I'm sorry, I need to change our plan.
B

我很高兴你在我出发前告诉了我。

wǒ hěn gāoxìng nǐ zài wǒ chūfā qián gàosu le wǒ. I'm glad you told me before I left.
A

突然发生了一件意外的事。

tūrán fāshēng le yí jiàn yìwài de shì. Something unexpected came up.
B

没关系。我们可以选另一天。

méi guānxi. wǒmen kěyǐ xuǎn lìng yì tiān. That's all right. We can choose another day.
A

这周晚些时候你方便吗?

zhè zhōu wǎn xiē shíhou nǐ fāngbiàn ma? Would later this week work for you?
B

这周晚些时候我可以。

zhè zhōu wǎn xiē shíhou wǒ kěyǐ. Later this week is fine for me.
A

我可以把新计划发给你。

wǒ kěyǐ bǎ xīn jìhuà fā gěi nǐ. I can send you the new plan.
B

这样可以帮助我调整我的日程。

zhèyàng kěyǐ bāngzhù wǒ tiáozhěng wǒ de rìchéng. That helps me adjust my schedule.

Sentence explanations

  1. 对不起,我需要改变我们的计划。

    I'm sorry, I need to change our plan.

    对不起
    I’m sorry
    我需要
    I need
    改变
    change
    我们的
    our
    计划
    plan
    More detail

    对不起 is a standard apology expression. Here it apologizes for what follows, giving “I’m sorry.” Example: 对不起,我迟到了。 — “I’m sorry, I’m late.” 我需要 combines 我 (“I”) with 需要 (“need”). 我 identifies the speaker; it does not change for grammatical gender or number. 需要 is a verb and has the same form here for the present need; Chinese does not mark English-style tense on this verb. Example: 我需要帮助。 — “I need help.” 改变 is the verb “to change.” It can describe making something different, as in 改变计划 (“change a plan”). The form does not show person or tense by itself. Example: 我们改变了时间。 — “We changed the time.” Here 了 helps present the event as completed, while the fixed sentence has no such marker. 我们的 means “our.” 我们 means “we/us,” and 的 links it to the thing possessed: 我们的计划 means “our plan.” This possessive form does not state how many people are included in “we.” Example: 这是我们的房间。 — “This is our room.” 计划 is the noun “plan.” It can refer to an intended arrangement or course of action. Example: 这个计划很好。 — “This plan is good.” Together, 我需要 states the speaker’s need, 改变 supplies the action, and 我们的计划 identifies what will be changed. Thus the complete utterance means: “I’m sorry, I need to change our plan.”

  2. 我很高兴你在我出发前告诉了我。

    I'm glad you told me before I left.

    我
    I; me
    很高兴
    be glad
    你
    you
    在 … 前
    before …
    出发
    leave; depart
    告诉
    tell
    More detail

    我 means “I/me.” In this utterance, the first occurrence is the speaker as the subject of 很高兴; the later occurrences refer to the speaker in the time clause (我出发) and as the person told (告诉了我). Chinese 我 does not change form for subject versus object. 很高兴 means “be glad.” 高兴 is the adjective “glad/happy,” and 很 is a degree adverb meaning “very” or, in this common adjective-predicate pattern, a natural degree marker. Chinese can use an adjective phrase directly as the predicate, so no separate equivalent of “am” appears here. Example: 我很累。 — “I am very tired.” 你 means “you” and is the subject of the embedded event 你……告诉了我: you are the person who did the telling. Chinese pronouns do not change form for subject and object, so context and position identify its role here. 在……前 creates a time expression meaning “before …”. Here, the material inside it is 我出发, so 在我出发前 means “before I left.” The pattern can be reused with a clause or event: 在他回来前,我们先吃饭。 — “Before he comes back, we’ll eat first.” 出发 is the verb “to leave” or “to depart,” referring to setting off. It is not the general verb for every kind of leaving; it commonly focuses on beginning a journey or departure. In this sentence, 我出发 means “I left/departed.” 告诉 is the verb “to tell” or “to inform.” A common pattern is 告诉 + person + information, as in 她告诉我答案。 — “She told me the answer.” In the fixed sentence, 告诉了我 means “told me”; the information told is understood from the context rather than stated as a separate object. The event structure is 你 + 在我出发前 + 告诉了我: “you told me before I left.” 了 follows 告诉 and presents the telling as a completed event; it does not by itself mean that every sentence containing it must be translated with a simple past tense. The whole utterance is therefore “I’m glad you told me before I left,” with 我很高兴 expressing the speaker’s gladness about that completed telling.

  3. 突然发生了一件意外的事。

    Something unexpected came up.

    突然
    suddenly
    发生
    happen; occur
    意外
    unexpected
    事
    thing; matter
    More detail

    突然 means that the event happens suddenly or without warning. It commonly comes before the verb or event description: 他突然笑了。 means “He suddenly laughed.” 发生 is the verb “to happen” or “to occur.” It is especially common for events or situations, often with the event as its subject: 发生了变化 means “a change happened.” The 了 immediately after it presents the happening as a completed or newly recognized event here; it is part of the sentence’s aspect and is not part of the verb’s base form. 意外 describes something unexpected in this sentence. In 意外的事, it functions attributively before 事 with 的. It can also refer to an accident in other contexts, but that narrower meaning is not required here. 意外的 is not the comparative form of another adjective; it is the attributive form of 意外 in this phrase. 事 is a general noun meaning “thing” or “matter,” and in this sentence it refers to an event or occurrence. The preceding 一件 presents it as one event or matter; 件 is a classifier commonly used with matters, events, and other suitable items. Thus 一件意外的事 is literally “one unexpected matter/event,” naturally rendered here as “something unexpected.” Together, 突然发生了 says that something happened suddenly, while 一件意外的事 identifies what happened as an unexpected event. The complete utterance means: “Something unexpected came up.”

  4. 没关系。我们可以选另一天。

    That's all right. We can choose another day.

    没关系
    That’s all right
    我们
    we; us
    可以
    can
    选
    choose
    另一天
    another day
    More detail

    没关系 is a fixed, common expression meaning “that’s all right” or “no problem.” Here it reassures the other person after an unexpected event; it is not a literal statement about a relationship. The same expression can be used independently: 没关系。 — “That’s all right.” 我们 means “we” or “us.” 我 is “I/me,” while 我们 is the plural form used for a group that includes the speaker. The form does not mark gender. Example: 我们走。 — “We’re leaving.” 可以 means “can” here: it presents the proposed action as possible or acceptable. In other contexts it can also mean “may” or “be allowed to,” so the surrounding action determines the precise English rendering. Example: 你可以坐这里。 — “You can sit here.” 选 means “choose” or “select.” It is the verb in its basic written form; Chinese verbs generally do not change form for tense or for the subject. Example: 请选一个。 — “Please choose one.” 另一天 means “another day.” 另 contributes the meaning “another/different,” and 一天 is “one day,” with 天 as the time-unit word. 另 is different from 再: 另一天 selects a different day, while 再 commonly means doing something again or later. Example: 我们改到另一天。 — “Let’s move it to another day.” Together, 我们可以 (“we can”) + 选 (“choose”) + 另一天 (“another day”) gives “We can choose another day.” The first sentence, 没关系, supplies the separate reassurance “That’s all right,” so the complete utterance is: “That’s all right. We can choose another day.”

  5. 这周晚些时候你方便吗?

    Would later this week work for you?

    这周
    this week
    晚些时候
    later
    你
    you
    方便
    be convenient; be free
    吗
    question marker
    More detail

    这周 means “this week.” 这 points to the current or contextually relevant week, while 周 means “week.” A reusable pattern is 这 + time noun, as in 这周 (“this week”). Example: 这周我很忙。 — “I’m very busy this week.” 晚些时候 means “later.” It refers to a later time than now or than another understood point, here later within this week. 时候 means “time” or “when,” and 晚些 makes the time later; the whole chunk is a natural time expression. Example: 我们晚些时候再聊。 — “Let’s talk again later.” 你 is the second-person singular pronoun “you.” It does not itself mark gender. In this utterance, it is the person whose availability is being asked about. Example: 你今天忙吗? — “Are you busy today?” 方便 literally relates to something being convenient, but in this question it commonly asks whether the time is suitable or whether the person is available. It is a descriptive word, not a verb meaning “to make convenient” in this use. Example: 明天见面方便吗? — “Would meeting tomorrow be convenient for you?” 吗 is a sentence-final question particle. It turns the preceding declarative-style wording into a generally neutral yes-or-no question. It does not mean “what,” “when,” or “whether” by itself. Example: 你方便吗? — “Are you available?” Together, 这周 sets the time frame, 晚些时候 narrows it to a later point within that frame, and 你方便 asks whether that time is suitable or workable for the listener. The final 吗 marks the whole utterance as a question: “Would later this week work for you?”

  6. 这周晚些时候我可以。

    Later this week is fine for me.

    这周
    this week
    晚些时候
    later
    我可以
    I can; that works for me
    More detail

    这周 means “this week.” 周 is the noun “week,” and 这 is the demonstrative “this.” Together they form a time expression for the current week. A similar reusable pattern is 下周 “next week.” 晚些时候 means “later” or, more literally, “at a somewhat later time.” 时候 means “time” or “point in time,” while 晚些 indicates a later point than the one currently under discussion. The whole expression narrows the time within the week; it does not by itself specify an exact day or hour. For example: 我们晚些时候再谈。 — “Let’s talk later.” 我可以 contains 我, “I,” and 可以, which here means that the speaker is able or available for the understood activity, and therefore that the proposed time works for the speaker. 可以 can also express permission or general possibility in other contexts, so its exact force comes from the surrounding situation. For example: 我可以明天来。 — “I can come tomorrow.” The time expression 这周晚些时候 comes first, setting the proposed time. 我可以 then presents the speaker’s acceptance or availability. The activity is not stated in this sentence, but the surrounding exchange supports a scheduling meaning: “Later this week is fine for me.”

  7. 我可以把新计划发给你。

    I can send you the new plan.

    我可以
    I can
    把
    take the object as the focus of the action
    新
    new
    计划
    plan
    发给
    send to
    你
    you
    More detail

    我可以 combines 我 (“I”) with 可以, which here expresses ability or permission to do something: “I can …”. 可以 is commonly followed by a verb phrase, as in 我可以帮助你 (“I can help you”). The surrounding context supports a first-person speaker, but it does not add any extra claim about when the action will happen. 把 introduces the object that the speaker presents as the item acted on. The useful pattern is 把 + object + action: it foregrounds what will be done to the object. Here, 把新计划发给你 presents 新计划 as the item to be sent. 把 does not itself mean “take” in this construction. 新 means “new” here and modifies the following noun. It is the basic form of this adjective; for example, 新书 means “new book.” 计划 means “plan.” It is a noun here. In 新计划, 新 describes the plan, rather than changing the noun’s form. 发给 means “send to” in this sentence. 发 supplies the sending action, and 给 marks the recipient or direction toward someone. A reusable pattern is 把 + thing + 发给 + person, for example, 我把照片发给他 — “I send the photo to him.” 你 means “you,” the recipient identified by the fixed translation. It is the ordinary second-person pronoun in this role. Together, 我可以 states the speaker’s ability or permission, 把新计划 identifies the new plan as the object acted on, and 发给你 states that it is sent to you. The complete meaning is: “I can send you the new plan.”

  8. 这样可以帮助我调整我的日程。

    That helps me adjust my schedule.

    这样
    this way; like this
    可以
    can; be able to
    帮助
    help
    我
    me; I
    调整
    adjust
    我的
    my
    日程
    schedule
    More detail

    这样 means “this way” or “like this.” It points to a manner or method already established by the situation; here it introduces the method that produces the helpful result. A reusable pattern is 这样 + clause: 这样做更快。= “Doing it this way is faster.” 可以 expresses that something is possible, feasible, or able to produce an effect. In 这样可以帮助..., it combines with the following verb phrase; the whole combination is naturally translated as “this helps...” here. For ability, the subject can be explicit: 我可以帮你。= “I can help you.” 帮助 is the verb “to help.” It can be followed by the person helped and then an action: 帮助 + person + verb phrase. In this sentence, 我 is the person helped, and 调整我的日程 is the action. Example: 这个工具帮助我学习。= “This tool helps me study.” 我 is the first-person pronoun “I” or “me.” Its English translation depends on its role: 我 can be the doer in 我学习 (“I study”) or the person affected in 帮助我 (“help me”). Chinese does not change this pronoun for subject versus object position. 调整 means “to adjust” or “to make a change so that something is better suited.” It is a verb and is followed here by the thing being adjusted. Example: 我需要调整时间。= “I need to adjust the time.” 我的 means “my.” It is formed from 我 plus the possessive marker 的; it identifies the owner of the following noun. Example: 我的计划很简单。= “My plan is simple.” The 的 construction is reusable with other owners as well, such as 你的计划 (“your plan”). 日程 means “schedule,” especially an arranged timetable of activities or appointments. It is the object of 调整, so 调整我的日程 means “adjust my schedule.” Example: 我的日程很满。= “My schedule is very full.” Together, 这样 sets the manner, 可以 says that this manner can produce the result, and 帮助我调整我的日程 says that the result is helping me adjust my schedule. Thus the complete utterance means: “That helps me adjust my schedule.”

Grammar Points

需要 + 动词

我们需要改变计划。

wǒmen xūyào gǎibiàn jìhuà.

We need to change the plan.

需要后面直接接动词,表示必须做某事;英语通常用 need to + verb。

突然 + 动词

突然发生意外。

tūrán fāshēng yìwài.

An unexpected event suddenly happened.

突然通常放在动词前,说明动作或事件发生得出乎意料。

Chinese Vocabulary

出发 verb
chūfā leave; set off

你在我出发前告诉了我。

对不起 intj
duìbuqǐ I'm sorry

对不起,我需要改变我们的计划。

发生 verb
fāshēng happen; occur

突然发生了一件意外的事。

改变 verb
gǎibiàn change

我需要改变我们的计划。

高兴 adj
gāoxìng glad; happy

我很高兴你在我出发前告诉了我。

告诉 verb
gàosu tell

你在我出发前告诉了我。

计划 noun
jìhuà plan

改变我们的计划。

没关系 phrase
méi guānxi that's all right; no problem

没关系。

突然 adv
tūrán suddenly

突然发生了一件意外的事。

我们 pron
wǒmen we; us

改变我们的计划。

需要 verb
xūyào need

我需要改变我们的计划。

意外 adj
yìwài unexpected; unexpected event

突然发生了一件意外的事。

Quiz

Spelling

Tap the letters to spell the word.

suddenly

Show Answer突然

leave; set off

Show Answer出发

glad; happy

Show Answer高兴

tell

Show Answer告诉